Relating well with people begins by being a person of integrity . . . not a word used frequently in business settings. Here’s a working definition and practical ways to apply it to become a great leader.
So What Is Integrity?
This word gets tossed around a lot but is often misunderstood. Here’s how Microsoft’s Encarta Dictionary defines it: “Possession of firm principles: the quality of possessing and steadfastly adhering to high moral principles or professional standards.”¹ To be a person of integrity, you must have firm principles and practice (adhere to) them. Those firm principles include high moral principles or professional standards.
Leaders seek out such people to follow and are mentored by them. Having mentors who fit this description is a key to becoming a great leader.
Ned Hatathli, the first Navajo to become an Educator, to earn a Ph.D. and the first President of Diné College, was a well-respected leader. Undoubtedly he was mentored by many during his traditional Navajo childhood as well as by instructors at Tuba City High School, Haskell Institute, the United States Navy, andNorthernArizonaUniversity. When he returned to the Navajo Reservation upon completing his formal education, Hatathli became a leader in the Diné people’s movement toward greater economic and social opportunity.² His followers joined in these causes.
Many U. S. Presidents have had mentors, including President Ronald Reagan. One such leader was Nobel laureate and economic advisor Milton Friedman.³ It is certain that the late President had many loyal followers.
Are you a person of integrity? Here are a few points to consider when seeking an honest answer to this important question.
- Do you seek to be a person of high morals and/or professional standards?
- Who would commend you as a person who believes in and practices high moral standards and/or high professional standards? Consider whether the persons you named hold to these same standards. If so, their opinion is more likely to be accurate.
- Who follows you simply because they admire the way you demonstrate your morals/standards by the life you live?
If you would like to improve in this area, consider these suggestions.
- Seek out someone whom you perceive to be a person of integrity and ask if they will be a mentor to you.
- Ask yourself what principles (values) guide you. Make a list of the top 6 – 10. What source determines these values? Is the source of the highest credibility? Of course you must align your behavior with the new values, not just your thinking, in order to become more of a person of integrity.
- Make a list of behaviors associated with the values you esteem and practice the behaviors.
To be a great leader – even a good one – inherently means there are people following you. People will only follow those with whom or to whom they can relate in a meaningful way. A key to building relationships is to begin by being a person of integrity!
If you know someone who may be interested in learning more about how to lead through integrity, we offer in-person or telephone coaching on this subject. Contact me at JoUmberger@TrainSpeakCoach.com.
¹ Encarta World English Dictionary [North American Edition). Microsoft Corporation:BloomsburyPublishing Plc., 2009. http://encarta.msn.com/encnet/features/dictionary/DictionaryResults.aspx?lextype=3&search=integrity. Retrieved March 4, 2010.
² Harrison Lapahie Jr. Navajo_Leaders_Right.cfm. Navajo Leaders. http://www.lapahie.com/Navajo_Leaders.cfm. Retrieved March 4, 2010.
³ Greg Kaza. Going to School on Reaganomics: The late president knew his stuff. NRO Financial. http://old.nationalreview.com/nrof_comment/kaza200406151029.asp. Retrieved March 4, 2010.
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